
Nearly seven years ago, full of excitement and a little trepidation we took early retirement and moved out to our little holiday home here in Murcia. We sold up in Scotland as having two homes wasn’t within our budget and we are pretty proud of how we have lived simply on small pensions, some savings and my part time teaching. We have had the most amazing adventures and finally at 65, I decided to retire properly last June. My work with Interlang Idiomas was brilliant in many ways. Possibly after going online thanks to Covid, I met more students from all over Spain and learned so much as they improved their English. I still prefer face to face classrooms but would not have met such a wide range of people if I had continued teaching only in Murcia. Spain is an incredible country , every autonomous region with its own culture , food, weather and geography. We have been lucky and explored a lot but there is still so much to see. The academic managers and office team in Madrid were also great to work with and staff meetings in Spanish helped me improve my understanding too although I was always a little nervous about contributing opinions!
However at sixty five and a half there were several reasons to call it a day. Some and not in any order of importance were a) my ancient lap top that I continue to write on, decided that the camera was meant to make me look like an Andy Warhol painting , pretty disturbing for students and I was not willing , nor could afford a new computer. Working a month to buy a laptop or having time to potter in the garden, hike with Walt and Rocky and go away in Ziggy when ever we wanted? Daddy or chips? I have no desire to be a digital nomad, when we go away exploring I don’t want to be online! b) was the exploring, I was pretty envious when Walt went off on day jaunts and I was in my cave ! ( spare bedroom with ancient laptop) . c) It has also been brilliant when family come to visit or I go to Scotland and can relax without classes and planning. My lessons all started at 8am. That was 7am when in Scotland. On the 30th of June, I took my last class and I am getting really good at saying ‘no’ when neighbours and new friends ask if I will teach them or their little people. I have retired….. 100%.

The reality of my decision really only kicked in when our schools went back in September and it did feel a little strange after so many years of planning and opening up a pristine academic diary! The strangeness did not last long. We had had three brilliant weeks travelling in Ziggy, from home to Cuenca , the Spanish Pyrenees, Andorra, the French Pyrenees and back in to Spain via Hendaye, San Sebastian and of course our much loved Picos de Europa. Walt did all of this with an L2 fracture of his back although at the time he thought it was a very bad sprain after picking up our very heavy motorbike which had fallen over when parked. It wasn’t until we came home and he finally went to the doctor that we learned how serious the injury was…. adventures not dramas? Well we have had a few dramas too. Despite this , we had an amazing trip and wanted to do more. Another reason to retire.

Happy Anniversary Walt.! This blog has been languishing in ‘drafts’ for over a month as we had a very busy February and start of March. It was seven years exactly since we moved Walt and Ben over in our old Vauxhall lovingly called ‘Disco Dashboard, ‘ and the adventures began! To celebrate we spent nine days in Andalucia and I fell in love with the Costa de la Luz. I am planning a short blog to tell you about our wonderful February fun! We then flew to Edinburgh for five days and had a fabulous family time together. Back home and I think we have cured the seven year itch !


Seven years on, we have had time to reflect and there have been moments of feeling unsettled, a little homesick for Scotland and family and friends . The long , very hot summer was one of those times. Every year seems to be hotter and even three weeks away in the cooler north, meant nearly two months of temperature that were rarely under 30 and on several days hit 40. We love being outdoors but for much of August and September, we were indoors from lunch time until 9 or 10 at night. We love the northern autonomous communities of Cantabria, Asturias and Galicia and did spend some time scrolling through the property pages for these communities. It passed some time when we couldn’t do much else! By October, our gentle Autumn and winter reminded us of why we love it here and the reality of moving, the costs and paper work to move to another community and government calmed us down. It had been interesting reflecting on what we have done and would we do anything different if we were to do it again. What would we say to anyone contemplating moving abroad later in life?
- Go for it! As a little girl one of my favourite TV programmes was Daktari. Set in Africa, I can’t remember what country it was set in but the sun drenched landscape fascinated me. I wanted to live in a warm, sunny country. ( the reality of 40C+ hasn’t changed my mind on this one). Having said that , in some ways, I think it would have been easier making the move when younger. It is definitely more difficult to make friends and integrate in to a community when not working. We have done so to an extent but our neighbours are mainly young families with long working hours and weekends spent with their parents and grandparents. We didn’t want to live in an expat area and don’t regret that decision but we can see why for many people those types of areas offer a ready made community. If you are retired and family are over 1,000 miles away there are other similar aged and minded neighbours with facilities such as doctors , dentists and tradesmen all offering their services in English!
- Thinking about where to live. We bought our home off-plan in 2007. We do a lot of things on impulse. It’s just the way we are! We don’t regret it and love our home . It is small and easy to look after. It was within our budget in 2007. Had we had a crystal ball regarding the financial crash of 2008 and that for the same amount as we paid for our two bedroom home, we could have bought a three bed semi villa when we finally got the keys in 2010, we might not have been so impulsive but that’s life! Three bedrooms would be very useful when our grandchildren come over! If your family is growing, keep this in mind when looking at property. I would also recommend renting first,which ofcourse we didn’t! As we get older the lack of public transport and a hilly 3 mile walk to the village make us think that perhaps being closer to amenities and not needing to drive so much would be really good. Spain is hugely diverse and if we are honest, the northern coast, Asturias, Galicia, Cantabria probably appeals to us more in terms of natural beauty but the Mediterranean in winter sparkles ! You can’t have it all!! Travel about a bit, experience the different seasons in different autonomous communities. My hairdresser is from A Coruña in Galicia and she says that she would never return, it rains too much!
- We chat about the ‘comfort zone’ of living on the costas now and then but I still wouldn’t do things differently.. It’s a hard one , the comfort zone question, and we deliberately chose not to live in an expat area . I have begun going back to our local library and am enjoying reading in Spanish, I am determined to improve and Spanish friends are very encouraging. We are planning a road trip early in 2024 to explore more of Andalucia. I have never been to Cadiz and I fancy seeing if we can let Rocky experience snow in the Sierra Nevada ! (We did this last month , it was incredible!)
- Be honest with your expectations. It’s not all G&Ts as the sun goes down. Accidents and illnesses happen that need doctor’s and MRI appointments , the dog needs his vaccinations, the van breaks down and we need to organise a breakdown truck (grua) in Spanish and French! Good for our learning and old brains but it can be exhausting. Again on the Costas you can find, at a price, someone to translate and help you with all of the above and through the maze of Spanish bureaucracy needed to gain residency, driving licences, health care and more! We did it the hard way!
- Re number 4…..Learn as much of the language spoken in your chosen country as possible. Even if you live in an expat area. It’s just rude not to! I have been to the library and local pool today, no English spoken!
- Remember to take time, slow down and relish the ordinary and the out of the ordinary that living abroad allows you to experience. I love the weather, apart from July and August, I love our huerto and its abundance. I love the seasonality of food , the oranges are so delicious just now. I love the simpler, slower pace of life. This has probably got a lot to do with being retired! I am so very grateful for our adventures so far. We have plans and dreams but also know as we get older that every day is precious. Which brings me to my last point.
- Changing your mind or doing something different is not ‘giving in’. If it doesn’t work for you, if you reckon like us , that in a few years time and nearly 70 and will perhaps need those amenities closer to hand or family nearby , no problem! There will still be adventures just different ones! Never stop dreaming!































































































































































